Well, that's the thing - I stayed home for 21 years. Stay at home Moms are a rarity these days. Most families can not afford to live on one income. We lived in a neighborhood where most Mom's did stay home and volunteered at the schools. They redistricted our neighborhood to a different Elementary School - we had a Mom's group that continued to drive our kids to our original Elementary school, for 6 years in the case of my youngest. I was part of that group.
My ex stayed at home too. Working would have cut into her needlessly driving around shopping and spending money 5 days a week, lol.