I started drinking when ai was 13 and hung out with a pretty rough crowd. My folks had more money than probably most of the kids I went to school with. I stayed away from all drugs, even weed until college. I was around it. It's not like I couldn't have done so before then. I had disciple even then and more than my siblings.
Lots of people are born into money and are total losers and non-contributors to society or underachievers. It's all about having a vision and most importantly, being able to through when any reward is in the future and it's all a bit uncertain where you will end up. You are either born with that or you aren't.
13? What a slacker. I was selling weed by 13.