My dad died from cancer a year before she disappeared my uncle died the same year same reason and still fresh in my mind when she did that. I thought it was inappropriate to use cancer as a joke by fooling people. I seen the sympathy directed at her and was genuine. I doubt I would talk to her if I ever seen her again..
I understand your point of view, you knew her...
Forgive me, Weepy. I didn't mean to make light of your loss. That wasn't my intention at all.