Wait broke the wagon as my grandmother always said. I agree if you wait for someone else to do it for you, you could wait around till your dead.
Sooo, its a good thing not to rely on anyone but yopurself, the only way things get done, Ive been there done that, learned my lesson well.
I can’t even recall saying that. Whatever you do, don’t listen to me or any other stranger that gives advice not knowing it said it or not.
Probably not a discussion about money but ones own self esteem. Believing in yourself over everything all and above. Etc. Getting her done.