You have 2 children that you adore...nothing else matters!
The only poster(s) making this about her kids is youself and/or PL. I've never insinuated such! And will not be intimidated by your or her unfounded thoughts nor anyone elses.
I've been researching human-trafficking for years, I'm very offended by the practice. Recently, a federal court received a sworn-affidavit, stating John Roberts (SCOTUS-Cheif Justice.) illegally adopted two new-borns, via Jeffery Epstein's help. I have never considered a minimum age restriction for adoption, as an indicator for possible trafficking before. It's really that simple. Epstein was big into baby farming.
Every reasonable American should have a concern about this issue!