To start off I can't swim and never could......many moons ago I was pushed in the water by a EX and he even knew I could not swim........(took place in WV) anyways I was drowning and the EX wouldn't even help me....he yelled "You'll learn how to swim now"......nope I didn't and couldn't...talk about thinking I was going to drown........then a black water snake was coming my way and I panic even more......finally my EX's cousin jumped in to save me........talk about fear I was so scared....glad my EX was a EX.......I am so thankful and blessed today to end up with my Cowface who is a good man and would never do anything like that.......today I still can't swim......
Wat a jerk! Is for sure not the correct or safe way to teach swimming. Is a good way to create a life long phobia!
There is usually a good reason as to why someone becomes an ex.