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I so much agree.
Each child had their own personality, so you have to treat them with a slight difference from the other. There is a happily married couple here that’s had 6 children and each one is different. Some are like night and day. lol! So you have to raise each one somewhat different because some are more prone to fear while some do not fear as much.
But much of that has to do with the mother while the child is in her womb. They share her feelings.

Of course, some of this is genetics, while the rest it the child’s environment. They do feel any stress, or love from the mother.

Hope you didn’t mind my interject.

My wife and I used to joke that about every 8 years we forgot what a pain in the ass having a baby was. But with each one, it was a brand new learning curve. By the time I had the first one figured out, we’d have another one and it was literally like starting over.

My wife came from a family of 8 kids, so I can only imagine what her parents went through.