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« Reply #1962 on: September 08, 2019, 01:37:43 pm »
This is the same brother that raged at an Outlaws house.  Broke a bunch of ****.  Was told he was never allowed back.  I met him out  him when I was back home.  My brother was there and he laughed it off.  He told me about 5 times how nice it was to meet me and he had heard a lot about me from my two brothers.  There isn't anything you can do with him.  My other brother and I don't care and he's off limits and you won't get all 3 of us at once.  The other 2 of us will come all of them if they try.

That same Outlaw whose house my brother busted up, I guess the club wanted him to beat up my friend Nate for disrespecting two leaders of some affiliated club.  The whole thing sounds so childish to me.
 

I was laughing about it with my buddy Nate.  I said dude that's the sort of sh1t we were doing when we were teenagers ... running around with guns and beating up people who looked at you wrong or disrespected you.  Unless you are in it cause you want to be part of a criminal enterprise and make $ out of it by moving drugs or selling drugs, the whole thing makes no sense to me. I just can't see myself as a 42 year old man having some club of dudes telling me what I have to do cause someone disrespected someone.  I'd be like how about the guy who feels he was disrespected go beat up the guy he feels disrespected him or better yet how anoutnthey just ignore each other and keep their distance from each other, which is how I approach people I don't care for.

I just want to ride.  I think having a clubhouse is cool and whatnot ... a place to meet up and I can see paying dues to contribute to running things.  My grandpa was in one if those in the 30s and 40s in Chicago (he actually borrowed money from the club to marry my grandma and paid them back)   The one I went in IL a few summers ago had a kitchen in it and they'd have brunches.  That was pretty cool, but all that other drama no way.  I didn't even like all the infighting and rivalries in my college fraternity and just wanted everyone to get along.  It didn't happen and I was done with it.  I have no patience for petty bickering much less grown men beating each other up over such things.

My screw up brother almost went to prison for killing a guy in a bar fight.  He was in a coma and they didn't think he was gonna make it.  Guy had brain swelling.  He miraculously recovered.  Fighting isn't something to be taken lightly and it's best to be avoided.  My brother was banned from that bar for a long time, until a friend of a friend bought it.  Whenever I was I. Town we could never go there and it was a popular hang out cause of him.

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« Reply #1963 on: September 08, 2019, 03:27:21 pm »
My other brother just called me and said you are having him down there are you nuts, lol.  He said he doesn't know what my screw up brother is gonna do when my folks pass.  I'm the only one who will even try with him anymore and I know my limits.  One week is my limit and even my other brother said I better hope he doesn't get mad when he's down here.  He really should go on meds, but if I tell him that he.'lol lose his sh*t and storm off.

I just said it's only for a week, but my folks are gone and then they come home for a week and are going on two back to back cruises and will be gone for a month again.  They won't be back until November.  They are gone for two weeks now.  My brother said my dad paid for him to stay in a hotel for a week, I guess and then he's gonna stay with me for a week, but I have no idea what he's gonna do when my folks are gone for a month.

My sister is kind of a princess witch too at times.  Even my son said why is she so mean to everyone.  She got into it with me when I was up there I told her everyone thinks she's a b*tch.  My uncle, my cousin, my brothers were like have fun going on vacation with her.  She did get pissy one night on vacation in Michigan ... cause I was kicking her ax in that board game.  Then she did the same thing when we were back at my folks house.

I love my family and wish I could be closer to them but limited doses is best for me mentally and there is just a lot less drama that way.  I'm glad I am an independent man and can rely on myself.

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« Reply #1964 on: September 08, 2019, 04:27:14 pm »
NC it's nice to read that most of us don't have that perfect family 😉

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« Reply #1965 on: September 08, 2019, 04:46:13 pm »
Wow, UT!! Congrats!

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« Reply #1966 on: September 08, 2019, 05:04:26 pm »
NC it's nice to read that most of us don't have that perfect family 😉
I think most people don't have the perfect family.

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« Reply #1967 on: September 08, 2019, 05:15:34 pm »
I think most people don't have the perfect family.

Mine is probably worse than most.  My oldest brother offed himself when I was 18.  Came back from a night of partying to a man answering machine message my freshman year of college..  He's not here anymore and he was very sweet and kind.  He wasn't like the other 3 of us brothers.  He was gay too.  Very handsome and looked like a model.  Not everyone is as strong as others.  I run till I get dry heaves and push myself.  Not everyone has that and at one point I crashed and burned in my life, but I remade myself much stronger.

I'm lucky that I'm independent and rely on myself.  I'm the only truly independent child of my folks.  1 out of 5 isn't good.  I get mad at them sometimes and lash out, but I know that hurts them and that's not okay.  I have told them more than once we don't care about their effing money, we just want to be loved.  My brother who called me has way more issues than me.  His gf has him in counseling and he constantly looks for approvals from my folks.  She is very understanding.  I'm far from perfect but somehow I turned out kind of normal.  I can be a little cold to others and isolationist..

Before they invented reality tv so many friends and family friends growing up used to say they need to make a tv show about my family.

I don't raise my kids like I was raised.

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« Reply #1968 on: September 08, 2019, 05:27:45 pm »
I'm not spiritual at all, but I thinks sometimes things in life happen for a reason.

i don't know how I would have gotten through my divorce if I hadn't crashed and burned earlier.  I think it prepared me to go through that and it's been about 2.5 years and I would say just this summer I have gotten to the point where I don't have any bad days over it.  It was a roller coaster for a long time with days where I felt on top of the world and days where I felt like sh*t.  I don't ever want to go though that again.

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« Reply #1969 on: September 08, 2019, 06:54:18 pm »
Mine is probably worse than most.  My oldest brother offed himself when I was 18.  Came back from a night of partying to a man answering machine message my freshman year of college..  He's not here anymore and he was very sweet and kind.  He wasn't like the other 3 of us brothers.  He was gay too.  Very handsome and looked like a model.  Not everyone is as strong as others.  I run till I get dry heaves and push myself.  Not everyone has that and at one point I crashed and burned in my life, but I remade myself much stronger.

I'm lucky that I'm independent and rely on myself.  I'm the only truly independent child of my folks.  1 out of 5 isn't good.  I get mad at them sometimes and lash out, but I know that hurts them and that's not okay.  I have told them more than once we don't care about their effing money, we just want to be loved.  My brother who called me has way more issues than me.  His gf has him in counseling and he constantly looks for approvals from my folks.  She is very understanding.  I'm far from perfect but somehow I turned out kind of normal.  I can be a little cold to others and isolationist..

Before they invented reality tv so many friends and family friends growing up used to say they need to make a tv show about my family.

I don't raise my kids like I was raised.
I completely understand, growing up, my brothers and I were close but my sister who is 11 years older than me, always felt like she was better than the rest of us. She wasted her college degree and never worked in the field that she got a degree in. Never learned to cook and clean. My brothers and I are no longer close. One thinks he is better off than the rest of us and the other one can't stay away from the bottle. My parents would be upset in how they act but they also had told me that death would change the family dynamics and it has. For a while, I tried to keep it together at holidays and then just said screw it, I have my own family to do that for.

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« Reply #1970 on: September 08, 2019, 07:25:47 pm »
I completely understand, growing up, my brothers and I were close but my sister who is 11 years older than me, always felt like she was better than the rest of us. She wasted her college degree and never worked in the field that she got a degree in. Never learned to cook and clean. My brothers and I are no longer close. One thinks he is better off than the rest of us and the other one can't stay away from the bottle. My parents would be upset in how they act but they also had told me that death would change the family dynamics and it has. For a while, I tried to keep it together at holidays and then just said screw it, I have my own family to do that for.

Your sister sounds like my screw up brother.  He went to 3 different colleges and never got his degree.  I think we will mostly go our separate ways too when my folks are gone.  I'm the only one of my siblings that gets along with the other 3 to any degree.  Thing is we can get in huge arguments and fight and we are able to leave it in the past.  We don't hold grudges which is good.  My sister and folks are still planning to move down here by me. 

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« Reply #1971 on: September 08, 2019, 07:59:37 pm »
https://apple.news/AOKaeFJ0mQNCttsxT5uuK_g

I agree with Rosenberg, but I disagree with his conclusion of the root causes for this.

 I think diversity is undermining democracy.  Democracy only works when people on opposing sides of the political aisle are still close enough that they will accept the opposing side being in power.  People are more likely to do so when the differences between opposing sides are minimal.  As the differences grow, eventually the divide becomes too large such that opposition candidates are so remote from one's own views that their being in power is not something one will support.  Folks like Omar and Talib, their 3rd world Islamic value systems are so remote from my value system that I won't accept people like them calling the shots and I won't respect it.  I don't want to share a democracy with such types and I don't want them having any say over how my government is run.  They are too far from me.

Let's not forget America fought a civil war when the voting population was almost 100 percent white and mostly Protestant and nearly universally Christian.  Even with such similarities between Americans we still fought a civil war.  Divisions are only amplified the more diverse society is.

Also once it gets to the point where you feel candidates that reflect your views can never win, then you will look for alternative systems where you stand a chance of having your preferred candidates in power rather than a system where this isn't even possible.

What would a democracy look like in Israel I'd say for example Jews were 50 percent of the voting population and Muslims were 50 percent?  It would be very dysfunctional because there is just too big of a divide between the two groups.  The problem is that the elites say, we must have forced diversity and people need to learn to be more tolerant, and while they may feel that way they can't force others to be more tolerant if they don't want to because the opposition is just too different from them. Democracy works best when people are similar to each other with similar views.  It doesn't work when you have widely divergent views that are incompatible and inconsistent with each other..

AOC's Hugo Chavez like views are not compatible with my views.  She wants to change America's demographics so more and more people like her flood our country too and wants to change our demographics to the point that folks like me are a small minority with no hope to ever call the shots.  Faced with this situation democracy becomes untenable.  I won't support it anymore.

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« Reply #1972 on: September 08, 2019, 08:11:31 pm »
https://apple.news/AOKaeFJ0mQNCttsxT5uuK_g

I agree with Rosenberg, but I disagree with his conclusion of the root causes for this.

 I think diversity is undermining democracy.  Democracy only works when people on opposing sides of the political aisle are still close enough that they will accept the opposing side being in power.  People are more likely to do so when the differences between opposing sides are minimal.  As the differences grow, eventually the divide becomes too large such that opposition candidates are so remote from one's own views that their being in power is not something one will support.  Folks like Omar and Talib, their 3rd world Islamic value systems are so remote from my value system that I won't accept people like them calling the shots and I won't respect it.  I don't want to share a democracy with such types and I don't want them having any say over how my government is run.  They are too far from me.

Let's not forget America fought a civil war when the voting population was almost 100 percent white and mostly Protestant and nearly universally Christian.  Even with such similarities between Americans we still fought a civil war.  Divisions are only amplified the more diverse society is.

Also once it gets to the point where you feel candidates that reflect your views can never win, then you will look for alternative systems where you stand a chance of having your preferred candidates in power rather than a system where this isn't even possible.

What would a democracy look like in Israel I'd say for example Jews were 50 percent of the voting population and Muslims were 50 percent?  It would be very dysfunctional because there is just too big of a divide between the two groups.  The problem is that the elites say, we must have forced diversity and people need to learn to be more tolerant, and while they may feel that way they can't force others to be more tolerant if they don't want to because the opposition is just too different from them. Democracy works best when people are similar to each other with similar views.  It doesn't work when you have widely divergent views that are incompatible and inconsistent with each other..

AOC's Hugo Chavez like views are not compatible with my views.  She wants to change America's demographics so more and more people like her flood our country too and wants to change our demographics to the point that folks like me are a small minority with no hope to ever call the shots.  Faced with this situation democracy becomes untenable.  I won't support it anymore.

The divide between conservatives and liberals is only growing too.  That's a big part why liberals can't accept Trump winning.  When it gets to the point that the other side winning is not acceptable, democracy fails.  This is why the south seceded during the civil war ... an anti-slavery President was simply not acceptable because southern society was economically based on slavery and an anti-slavery President was not compatible with this way of life.

What needs to happen is the Kumbaya liberals need to better understand human nature.  While they may want to sit around the fire singing Kumbaya with diversity (and in practice they aren't even as tolerant as they profess to be ... they are only tolerant if you agree with them), but many people don't and their Kumbaya nature isn't gonna change this.

I liken it to a sick science experiment where you take a pop bottle and put all kinds of ants of different colors and sizes in it and shake it up and tell yourself the ant diversity is gonna make the ants stronger.  It's not.  The ants would get along much better in that bottle if they were all the same kind.

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« Reply #1973 on: September 08, 2019, 10:26:48 pm »
The other night I had a preying mantis in my house.  I was cooking a steak late at night and he must have come in when I had the door open.  I put it outside.

Then today I saw a huge azz kissing bug on my deck.  First time I have seen one. I killed that effer.

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« Reply #1974 on: September 09, 2019, 12:21:31 pm »
https://apple.news/AOKaeFJ0mQNCttsxT5uuK_g

I agree with Rosenberg, but I disagree with his conclusion of the root causes for this.

 I think diversity is undermining democracy.  Democracy only works when people on opposing sides of the political aisle are still close enough that they will accept the opposing side being in power.  People are more likely to do so when the differences between opposing sides are minimal.  As the differences grow, eventually the divide becomes too large such that opposition candidates are so remote from one's own views that their being in power is not something one will support.  Folks like Omar and Talib, their 3rd world Islamic value systems are so remote from my value system that I won't accept people like them calling the shots and I won't respect it.  I don't want to share a democracy with such types and I don't want them having any say over how my government is run.  They are too far from me.

Let's not forget America fought a civil war when the voting population was almost 100 percent white and mostly Protestant and nearly universally Christian.  Even with such similarities between Americans we still fought a civil war.  Divisions are only amplified the more diverse society is.

Also once it gets to the point where you feel candidates that reflect your views can never win, then you will look for alternative systems where you stand a chance of having your preferred candidates in power rather than a system where this isn't even possible.

What would a democracy look like in Israel I'd say for example Jews were 50 percent of the voting population and Muslims were 50 percent?  It would be very dysfunctional because there is just too big of a divide between the two groups.  The problem is that the elites say, we must have forced diversity and people need to learn to be more tolerant, and while they may feel that way they can't force others to be more tolerant if they don't want to because the opposition is just too different from them. Democracy works best when people are similar to each other with similar views.  It doesn't work when you have widely divergent views that are incompatible and inconsistent with each other..

AOC's Hugo Chavez like views are not compatible with my views.  She wants to change America's demographics so more and more people like her flood our country too and wants to change our demographics to the point that folks like me are a small minority with no hope to ever call the shots.  Faced with this situation democracy becomes untenable.  I won't support it anymore.

Even in South Africa, it's causing problems amongst blacks:

"South Africa has Africa’s most-industrialized economy and attracts many residents of poorer nations on the continent who relocate in search of a better life. Their increased prevalence in several poor areas has sparked resentment among locals, who see them as competitors for jobs, business opportunities and affordable housing."

https://news.yahoo.com/anti-immigrant-attacks-spur-security-111649763.html?soc_src=newsroom&soc_trk=com.apple.UIKit.activity.CopyToPasteboard&.tsrc=newsroom

Almost 1/3 of South Africa's population is unemployed.  There is nothing wrong with expecting one's own government to prioritize its own citizens and their needs and wants.  People will rightly get upset when governments are tone deaf and act like this is a completely unfounded expectation.  The problem isn't with this expectation, but rather the tone deaf politicians.  Eff globalists.  They should all be rounded up and exported to Brazil so they can live out their diversity utopia dream.


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« Reply #1975 on: September 09, 2019, 09:34:01 pm »
The other night I had a preying mantis in my house.  I was cooking a steak late at night and he must have come in when I had the door open.  I put it outside.

Then today I saw a huge azz kissing bug on my deck.  First time I have seen one. I killed that effer.
Did you save the Preying Mantis?

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« Reply #1976 on: September 09, 2019, 09:40:32 pm »
The other night I had a preying mantis in my house.  I was cooking a steak late at night and he must have come in when I had the door open.  I put it outside.

Then today I saw a huge azz kissing bug on my deck.  First time I have seen one. I killed that effer.

What's a kissing bug?

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« Reply #1977 on: September 10, 2019, 11:05:36 am »
Did you save the Preying Mantis?

Yeah, I put it outside.  My little doodle was looking at it quite confused. Then I found a big moth in my house and I'd normally just kill it, but I thought is a moths life less than a preying mantis ... so I put that outside too.


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« Reply #1979 on: September 10, 2019, 09:36:47 pm »
They are the stuff of nightmares:

https://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/news/20190426/dangerous-kissing-bug-marches-north-in-us

I had to stop reading when I reached the part about parasites in the bugs feces, they land on your face at night when sleeping, attracted to the carbon dioxide from breathing. Talk about sleeping with your mouth closed!! yuk!