That's exactly why you are single. You don't make demands like that in a marriage. A marriage is a partnership not you saying that my husband will do this and that and I will do this and that. There are times that my husband cooks, and does the laundry and I don't ask him to do it on any certain days. Eating out is not something you would also do if you had a family. A meal out is very expensive with a family of four. Or even 3. We rarely eat out and both of us cook but I don't dictate what night he is going to do that or what night to do laundry. Now, we all know why you aren't married.
That came out wrong, I would not dictate, just explaining both parties must work as a team and share the chores. I choose not to get married, I've had several opportunities in the past. I like being single, it works for me, I never wanted children. The closest thing I had to a child was an Iguana.